Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian and Kate Upton – what do these gorgeous women all have in common? No, it’s not their rocking bodies. Apparently, these three have their own sex tapes – and they have taken the world by storm.
Admit it. You’ve probably seen One Night with Parisand had chills while watching Kate Upton and boyfriend Justin Verlander in the bathroom. You may even have a folder exclusively for celebrity sex tapes, which is in a private, hidden mode. Now you start to wonder – can you make your own sex tape, too?
The answer is a resounding yes. Your girlfriend may not be Paris or Kim, but you can surely make your own DIY porn – and make money out of it, just in case. Okay, let’s not take it that far.
After all, you need to be safe and protect your privacy. All you need is to follow these nine tips for creating your first sex tape and you and your girl will surely be the porn masters inside the bedroom.
1. Do It With Someone You Trust
This is the most important thing you have to consider before starting to work on your sex tape. Keep in mind that the concept of sex is already a serious act you have to consider, let alone making a sex tape. Before the planning starts, you need to make sure that the person you will do the sex tape with is someone you can trust your life to, and are comfortable sharing something so personal with, after all.
If you feel that this person is not worth your time, or think they will blackmail you, in case things go wrong, then don’t even bother making one. Your reputation matters, dude. The last thing you need is the picture of your penis online. Don’t make something you might regret in the end.
2. Talk About How The Scene Will Go
When it comes to making your own sex tape, talking is essential. This is because your sex tape may be around forever, depending on how long you plan to keep it and your manner of keeping it.
Therefore, it is important to lay the basics before getting into action. Here are some of the things you need to plan with your girl:
- The Storyline.This includes the roles you will play, setting, scenes and costumes, if applicable. You need to have a plot to make the filming more exciting and realistic.
- Where To keep The Sex Tape.Think about Cameron Diaz and Jason Segel in their 2014 movie Sex Tape and you get the picture. Privacy is important, guys. Don’t forget to discuss the ownership of the tape, even if you are husband and wife.
- The Duration As To How Long You Plan To keep The Sex Tape.Do you plan to keep it forever, or only for a few months when you want to get in the mood? Otherwise, you have to talk about the next factor.
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Photo by Worldizen / CC BY-SA 2.0 Plan How To Destroy The Tape And Delete It Permanently. That’s the problem with digital. It is easy to make copies of something to upload online. You don’t want to be the next Internet sex sensation, do you?
For added protection, you can make an agreement stipulating the terms and any liabilities in case one of you decides to breach the agreement. Make sure that you and your girl sign to make it consensual and agreeable to both parties.
3. Get The Equipment Ready
In making your own sex tape, you need to consider many things. This includes the camera, lighting, props, costumes, lube and anything you need to make your sex tape a successful one. This includes the following equipment:
- Lights – You may opt for the dark when having sex. In case you are filming yourself in action, it is best to leave your lights on for viewing purposes.
Fluorescent lights may not be the best choice in this department, so make sure to go for softer lighting. Red or purple lights could also work and get you in the mood, too. 
Camera –This is the most important tool you should have when shooting for your sex tape.- When making your sex tape, it’s all about the camera – and your performance, as well.While your iPhone may be convenient, a mini DV camera is the best equipment for the job. It should have a decent resolution that could accentuate you and your girl’s bodies, but itshould be small enough for easy handling during all the action.
- Props – You need to make your sex tape believable. If you decided to go for the teacher-student porn, then setting up your bedroom into a classroom, sans the blackboard could help a lot. If you need to be in costumes, then so be it. Don’t forget the lube, just in case. A wine within reach could be useful if any of you experiences performance anxiety.
Camera –This is the most important tool you should have when shooting for your sex tape.4. The Setting
The setting also plays an important role when making your sex tape. Aside from getting the equipment ready and playing your part, how you designed the room and turned it into a sensual environment helps you get in the mood.
This is where lighting and props come in. In making a sex tape, you need to make it look believable. You don’t have to go to an actual school, precinct or hospital. You just have to make use of what you have and design your room according to your chosen storyline. It brings out your creative skills too, don’t you think?
5. Don’t Forget To Groom
Let’s say you never cared about what’s down there. Still, you are a perfectly groomed and a dude who observes proper hygiene, especially with your guy down south. Since you are in front of a camera, you need to make sure that you are clean on all angles. Does this mean you have to shave down there? Not really. Still, a serious manscaping could do a lot to make everything else viewer-friendly. Taking a shower before the act itself is also imperative. This ensures that you eliminate any unwanted odor and prevent your partner from getting distracted – in a bad way.
6. Prepare For Everything
Even the best people in the league need to prepare before going on the battlefield. In this case, you need to prepare, too. Making your own sex tape requires preparation. Aside from grooming, you need to remember the importance of hygiene.
Take a bath; brush your teeth and floss, if necessary. If you need help with your performance, then drinking wine could ease any tension and anxiety inside the bedroom. If you have any rituals prior to sex, then make sure to do those rituals, so you can “act” better and more naturally.
7. Act Natural
This could be an issue, especially when it’s your first time making a sex tape. However, keep in mind that this is for your eyes only and no one else.
Don’t think about the porn stars and the way they act because you are not like them. You have your own ways of having sex.
Therefore, act as natural as possible. Make sure that everything you do is something you are comfortable with. If you’re not into dirty talking, then don’t force it for the sake of filming yourself.
If you want to experiment, then go ahead, just because you want to and agreed to it, not for the sex tape. This is why it is important that you only make a sex tape with someone you can trust and feel comfortable with. This reduces any anxiety, worries or tension that could ruin the outcome of the sex tape. Plus, you need to act out the part well, right? At the end of the day, it’s all about enjoying sex and each other’s company and doing something new to bring your relationship to the next level. Relax. Be yourself.
8. Focus On Each Other’s Assets
Switching positions and trying out different methods is an excellent way to enjoy sex. However, if you are in front of a camera, you need to consider all of the camera’s angles to make sure that it works well in terms of emphasizing you and your girl’s best features.
This is why it is recommended to use a mini DVD camera. It is light and easy for you to bring anywhere in order to switch point of views (POV’s).
Take the case of Paris Hilton. They changed the camera’s angles to make the sex tape more exciting. Otherwise, you will look like headless strangers humping each other. It is boring and you won’t even enjoy watching it.
9. Enjoy And Savor The Moment
Even if you are filming yourselves while doing the act, the most important thing that you need to do is enjoy what you are doing. Sex is fun and pleasurable. Don’t forget that, aside from bringing your sex life to the next level, you should still enjoy what you and your girl are doing.
Just have fun. The more you do, the higher the possibility of getting a take two. Don’t forget that a sex tape is for you and your girl’s eyes only. Do it purely for fun and never use it to blackmail anyone, unless you want to land yourself in jail for a long time.